Where Did That Thought Come From? Am I really ready to put our house on the market again?

Our relocation's are similar to childbirth.  The bad, painful memories fade with time and you forget how intense, painful and emotional it can be until you find yourself in the middle of it again!

This morning I had a dental appointment.  The dentist mentioned she would have to cover her vegetable garden tonight as we are expecting freezing temperature's and she just put in her garden this past weekend.  She put it in a bit early as her house is on the market and her realtor told her to get it in so it would be full and thriving to help sell the house.

When she said this, I completely surprised myself by feeling... a little jealousy?  A twinge of sadness that it wasn't our house on the market?

Where in the heck did THAT feeling come from?

Sure, it would be nice to BE relocated somewhere but I'm just not ready for the stress. The tears. The chapped hands and beat up, ragged fingernails from the hours of constant cleaning and DIY projects.  The anxiousness.  The anger.  The frustration and the worry.  The living alone, far from my husband while I sell the house.  The juggling the pets and pet paraphernalia and messes while trying to make the house beautiful for showings.

All of it.

After 11 moves I know what's involved so why in the world did that pang of jealousy hit me when she mentioned her house was on the market?


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Fat Cities and Skinny Cities in the USA

Take it with a grain of salt, as the Gallup polls are done by phone and many (most?) average, everyday people don't answer their phones if they don't know who is calling or suspect it's sales or survey'sThose that do answer, usually don't want to take the time to take survey's.  But, for what it's worth, the Gallup polls show the most and least obese cities in the USA.

The 10 most obese cities (by percentage):
Huntington-Ashland, Oh. (39.5);
McCallen, Texas (38.3);
Haggerstown, Md. (36.7);
Yakima, Wash. (35.7);
Little Rock, Ark. (35.1);
Charlestown, W. Va. (34.6);
Toledo, Ohio (34.2);
Clarksville, Tenn. (33.8);
Jackson, Miss. (33.8); and
Green Bay, Wis. (33.0);

The 10 least obese cities (by percentage):
Boulder, Colo. (12.4);
Naples, Fla. (16.5);
Fort Collins, Colo. (18.2);
Charlottesville, Va. (18.2);
Bellingham, Wash. (18.7);
San Diego, Calif. (19.3);
Denver, Colo. (19.3);
San Jose, Calif. (19.5);
Bridgeport, Conn. (19.6); and
Barnstable Town, Mass. (19.6).


What's the best bug-out bag or emergency to-go bag?

The answer to the 'best' bug-out bag, SHTF bag, get-home bag or to-go bag is...  the one that fits you, your family and your needs best.  Some people don't like that answer but it's the truest answer.

I am not a so-called or self proclaimed expert.  But I do have experience with this topic and it's important to me and my family so I thought I'd post about it on the website this morning.

First of all;  what is a bug out bag?  
A bag you have packed and ready for you, each of your family members and even your pets in case you need to get out of your home in a hurry, or in the case of a get-home bag, trying to return home from work or school during some sort of a disaster or emergency.

For some, the best example would be watching (or being one of) the people that were forced into a mandatory evacuation during hurricane Katrina.  A disaster of some kind hits or happens and you are forced with very little time to prepare, to leave your home for an unknown place, for an unknown length of time.

Also, consider the numerous freeway, highway and interstate video and photos taken by news crews before, during or after a disaster.  Traffic is at a standstill.  No one can move, cars are abandoned and families are separated.  This is the bag a prepared person has in their vehicle to grab-and-go.  Basic needs already packed. 

In the case of where our oldest two kids currently live (that we relocated from), cars in rural ditches, low traveled country roads or even on the interstates or highways, stalled due to 'white outs' or blizzard or ice conditions where you may have to stay in your vehicle for at least a day or two before you would be found or helped. 

What is in a get home or bug out bag?
This is where you have to personalize it.  What is important or necessary to me, isn't the same to you.  It also depends on where you live, what disasters you are preparing for, your skill level, how many people are with you, their ages and a long list of other variables.

For my own bag, I started with a basic 4-person kit I bought online (which is really more of a 2 person kit as you get '2' of many items for 4 people to share).  I then transferred the items between a comfortable backpack I had purchased separately and the one that came with the kit.  I supplemented things that were missing from the very 'basic' kit and I upgraded to better quality many of the other items.  (The tools and gloves you get in the kits are going to be crap quality from China.)   I added a good quality weather radio that could be crank or solar activated, I added fire starting materials, paper based maps and added items to the first aid kit.  I bought to-go toothbrushes that have the paste included, and added a good knife, a change of socks, underwear and t-shirt as well as some lightweight freeze dried food, a light fleece blanket and more.
Personalize your kit.  
Do you take daily medication you need?  
Do you wear glasses?  
Do you live in a dry, arid region or a wooded, wet region?  
A populated area where you can find help fast or do you live 20 miles from a town?  
Do you have a baby with you?  An elderly person? 
Special disabilities or disease or allergies to work around?

For my 2 college kids that live 1000 miles away, I started with a very basic starter kit;  the Trekker IV Emergency Kit.They probably will never need it - and I hope they don't.  But I bought this kit, split it between the two bags and added more items and better quality items I felt were important.  They keep them in the trunk of their cars to humor me... but I feel better knowing they have basic shelter, food, water, heat and tools to hopefully get them home or to relatives homes in the event of an emergency as well as surviving in their cars during blizzards and storms.

My husband has this backpack which he uses for work.  It currently holds his files, papers, his laptop computer and more.  In the event of an emergency it quickly becomes another to-go bag for us as it's very well made with great options for side pockets, zippered compartments and comfort.

SwissGear SA1923 ScanSmart Backpack

In the end, what I hope for is that everyone considers adding a bag to their trunk, or to the closet of their home in order to 'grab and go' if need be.  Evacuation on foot or vehicle, along with 3 days worth of food, water, medication and other supplies is a must for the most simple, basic emergency preparation.  If you do nothing else, you should at least do this - and 1 week is much more prudent than just 3 days.


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Top states with the worst drivers....

A survey from CarInsuranceComparison.com. shows the top 10 states with the worst drivers, based on car fatalities, citations, DUIs and other issues.   Having lived in Nashville, TN and knowing their penchant for not allowing anyone to merge in (no matter what the speed), I'm surprised Tennessee isn't on there!

The full ranking is:
1. Louisiana
2. South Carolina
3. Mississippi
4. Texas
5. Alabama
6. Florida
7. Missouri (tie)
7. North Carolina (tie)
9. Montana
10. North Dakota

Click here to read more on the survey at USAToday.com.


How Does Your City Score?

As I've mentioned many, many times before, I keep an eye on the news for anything housing, mortgage, bank, moving and relocation related.  Eleven moves under our belt so far but we know we aren't finished and don't know where we might end up next, nor when! 

Tonight I saw an article on credit.com talking about the annual American Community Survey, the U.S. Census Bureau releases statistics on the population. Age, race, location, income.  I found the list interesting but not surprising. 

Last year, the median U.S. household income was $51,371. The low-income areas don’t go above $32,860.

"Much like the high-income areas, 
 the low-income areas showed an 
interesting geographical makeup. 
Nine of the 10 lowest median incomes 
are found in the South."
Three of them are in North Carolina, two are in Texas and the only area outside the South is in New Mexico. Other states with cities on the list are Alabama, Tennessee, Virginia and Georgia. Virginia is the only state to have cities on both ends of the median-income spectrum.

And as far as population goes, the high-income areas are generally larger than the low-income ones. The Census Bureau defines a metro area as containing a “core urban area of 50,000 or more population, and a micro area contains an urban core of at least 10,000 (but less than 50,000) population.”

Only one of the high-income areas is a micro area, and only two of the low-income areas are metro. Population didn’t directly correlate to the area’s rank in its list.

10. Dalton, Ga.• Population: 142,741
• Income: $32,858

9. Forest City, N.C.• Population: 67,538
• Income: $32,836

8. Nacogdoches, Texas• Population: 65,466
• Income: $32,555

7. Martinsville, Va.• Population: 67,300
• Income: $32,196

6. Cookeville, Tenn.• Population: 106,498
• Income: $31,813

5. Talladega-Sylacauga, Ala.• Population: 81,664
• Income: $31,547

4. Brownsville-Harlingen, Texas• Population: 414,123
• Income: $30,953

3. Roanoke Rapids, N.C.• Population: 76,066
• Income:$29,930

2. Gallup, N.M.• Population: 73,664
• Income: $29,696

1. Lumberton, N.C.
• Population: 135,517
• Income: $28,293